We got to know their 3 kids – Frederika, Roy, and Marcie – and our families got to know each other over the years through bar mitzvahs and weddings. Frederika (Freddy), to our delight went into public health and then medical school. After finishing her medical degree she became a family medicine resident at the hospital in Seattle where her mother had been a nurse. Along the way she married one of her Peace Corps friends, who helped design and remodel Roger’s study (Gordon is now an architect, and he and Freddy have 2 kids of their own). And Freddy has now joined our faculty as a clinician based at Harborview, our county hospital.
During this period Roy and Pauline decided to move back to their ancestral home, and bought a magnificent old house on a hill at the edge of Wewoka. Several of Pauline's brothers and sisters also clustered around Wewoka, bringing their urban perspectives and mastery of a more complex urban world to the town. This family influx has helped shake a few of the cob-webs out of this sleepy, inbred town. One quote we heard that was attributed to one of the conservative white land-owners in the town was: "This place was alright until the Overstreets showed up."
The Overstreet-Jones clan also did something that few of us ever do: they gathered in their family members and reconstructed their lives and their relationships. As I heard one of Paulette's brother say: "We invented the family that we never had." The warmth and acceptance and inclusiveness of this family went far beyond the friendship that grew on the streets of Seattle: by the end of the trip, Roger fantasized about buying the house next door and hanging out his shingle. Life refracts into so many shards, and this trip has helped coalesce some of these fragments into the glowing rainbow that this country still has the power to create.
What a great story! I am enjoying reading your blog!
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ReplyDeleteWe've missed your blogs until a couple of days ago.
We liked your description of Wewoka!
Too bad you didn't get a chance to see the Seminole Nation Museum.
What a wonderful visit!